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You can now preorder my book!

From The New York Times wedding section to Glamour‘s sex guides, my writing on gender, sexuality, love, and social justice is all over the internet, with over 8,800 articles published. My first book Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject comes out June 10, 2024! I have edited for Teen VogueVice, and Complex and contributed to The Washington PostNew York Magazine, and much more.

I’m also a sexologist and AASECT-certified sex educator, offering private coaching and courses to help people improve their sex lives and relationships. In addition, I provide mentorship for writers and consulting for PR professionals. I am also a birth doula, a sexual assault counselor, and a marriage and family therapy trainee.

My work has been discussed on The Today Show and The View and appeared in anthologies including Here We Are: Feminism for the Real World and The Big Book of Orgasms. I’ve been quoted in Cosmopolitan, Men’s HealthPop SugarHealthline, Woman’s Day, Forbes, Fortune, and the BBC and spoken at South by Southwest, the AASECT Conference, the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, and other major conferences. I was named PR Hacker’s Top Beauty Journalist of 2020,  one of The League’s Inspirational Feminists to Follow on Twitter, an XBIZ Sexpert of the Year Award Nominee, a We-Vibe Pleasure Pioneer, and one of Kinkly’s Top Sex Educators to Follow on Twitter.

I hold a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, as well as a Bachelor of Science (Cognitive Neuroscience) and a Bachelor of Arts (Gender and Sexuality Studies, Modern Culture and Media) from Brown University. Previously, I worked in tech marketing, scientific research, and academic publishing. I write poetry, erotica, and memoir in my spare time and have several books in progress.

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